Joy & happiness is not something that we can have and feel it by ourself. What is the point if only us that happy by the people around us are sad, suffer . The real happiness is when the happiness that we have involving others people. Even just look at the other's person happiness, we also can be happy. For example, aren't we happy when our own family happy. And, when we meet and know someone or somebody, at that moment we know them, deep in our heart the main thing that we want from and to them is HaPpIneSS.
Aren't you?
Sit and lookback at yourselves, what actually you want to give to the person around you?
Even if the person were your enemy now, the first day when you meeting and know them is actually to make them as your friend, right? Aren't friendship is a good and happy thing. You actually want to create a great moment from others (which is your enemy now) from the beginning but it ended by making them as your enemy. At the moment the person become your enemy, do you feel ease? I don't think so. If you ask me, what you should do to improve your relationship with your enemy?, what can I said is be patience and generous to them, let your generosity smoothen their heart and then just wait and see, time will recover everythings. If you can believe the others, JUST BELIEVE ME!
It is not that I never felt mad or angry to other people.Yeah, I do felt it. But, it is that I don't want to treat the person as my enemy. When I mad or angry to others person, what I do is just quiet and thought it as something normal and do something that can make me happy easily such as dance and listen to cute and funny songs, make jokes to childrens and be close to family. I easily be happy when there is family at my side. Family always be my cure internally and externally.
It is not that I'm a good person but I just want to create a nice, happy life. Not just for me but to the others. A good and nice memories are what brighten up this life. We will realize that life is so colourful and wonderful as we create the happiness not just to us but to others. When we maintain that beautiful life, we will reach FiNaL FeliZ ~ HaPpy EnDing....
